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Anonymous: I started to study with a Jehovah witness. I am a christian. My husband is not religious. Although, he does not want me to study with a Jehovah witness. Not sure what to do, Ephesians 5:22-33. What do I tell the witness I am studying with?

I’m sorry it took me so long to reply. I’ve had a busy last couple of days. But I’ll try to answer your question the best way I can.

The first thing I’m going to encourage you to do is pray about your situation. Pour out your heart to Jehovah. Ask for courage to talk to your husband about how he feels. Ask for boldness to be able to express yourself to him. Ask for tact so that you express yourself in a respectful way. 

I know what you’re going through can’t be easy, but don’t stop your study until you’ve really talked to your husband. Find out what his objections are. Is there a personal reason he doesn’t want you to study? Is he just going off what he’s heard from other people in regards to the Witnesses? Sometimes family members object to their loved ones studying because of some misconception that they have about us. 

After you’ve talked to your husband, talk to the person you’re studying with. Let them know what his objections were and they’ll try to help. Remember that they’re there to encourage you. They’ll never tell you to leave your husband. They’ll probably bring out the scripture you did in your message. They’re there to help you. Just talk to them from heart.

One last thing I wanted to share with you is a Watchtower article. I hope it brings some encouragement to you. If you need anything else you can message me directly instead of on anon. I want to be able to respect your privacy. 

Do Jehovah’s Witnesses Break Up Marriages?

w08 11/1 pp. 11-13

“IF ONE partner changes his or her religion, the marriage will break up.” So goes the claim of many people. At times, this warning is delivered to a marriage partner who chooses to become one of Jehovah’s Witnesses. But is this assertion always true?

Understandably, when a married person starts to take an interest in religion or to change long-held religious views, it can come as a shock to the mate. It may cause feelings of anxiety, disappointment, and even resentment.

It is often the wife who first feels the need to change her religion. If your wife is studying the Bible with Jehovah’s Witnesses, how might this affect your marriage? If you are a wife who is associating with Jehovah’s Witnesses, what can you do to ease any anxiety your mate may feel?

A Husband’s Perspective

Mark, who lives in Australia, had been married for 12 years when his wife began to study the Bible with Jehovah’s Witnesses. “I was happily married and had a satisfying career,” says Mark. “Life was good. Then my wife decided to study the Bible with Jehovah’s Witnesses. I suddenly felt that my lifestyle was threatened. At first, I was unsettled by my wife’s newfound interest in the Bible, but when she told me that she had decided to be baptized as one of Jehovah’s Witnesses, I became seriously concerned.”

Mark began to wonder if his marriage would end because of his wife’s new faith. He thought about stopping her Bible study and forbidding her to have any contact with the Witnesses. Instead of reacting impulsively, though, Mark allowed some time to pass. What happened to his marriage?

“Happily,” says Mark, “our marriage is even stronger now than it was before. It has continued to improve since my wife was baptized as one of Jehovah’s Witnesses 15 years ago.” What helped the marriage to succeed? “Thinking back,” says Mark, “it was largely because my wife applied the good advice found in the Bible. She has always tried to treat me with respect.”

Advice From Successful Wives

If you are a wife who is associating with Jehovah’s Witnesses, what can you do and say to help ease any anxiety that your mate may experience? Consider the comments of these women from various parts of the world.

Sakiko, Japan: “I have been married for 31 years and have three children. I have been one of Jehovah’s Witnesses for the last 22 years. Living with a husband who does not share my beliefs is sometimes a challenge. But I work hard to apply the Bible’s counsel to be ‘swift about hearing, slow about speaking, slow about wrath.’ (James 1:19) I try to be kind to my husband and to yield to his wishes when they do not conflict with Bible principles. This has helped our marriage succeed.”

Nadezhda, Russia: “I have been married for 28 years and have been a baptized Witness for the last 16 years. Before studying the Bible, I didn’t think that my husband ought to be head of the family. I liked to make many decisions on my own. However, I gradually found that applying Bible principles contributed to the peace and happiness of our family. (1 Corinthians 11:3) Slowly it became easier for me to be submissive, and my husband has noticed these changes in me.”

Marli, Brazil: “I have two children and have been married for 21 years. Sixteen years ago, I became a baptized Witness. I learned that Jehovah God desires married couples to stay together, not to separate. So I try to be a good wife, to speak and act in a way that makes Jehovah and my husband happy.”

Larisa, Russia: “When I became one of Jehovah’s Witnesses about 19 years ago, I realized that the most important thing was for me to make changes in my life. My husband can see the way the Bible has influenced me for good—that it has helped me to appreciate him more. Initially, we would have disagreements regarding child training, but we have resolved those differences. My husband allows our children to come with me to the religious meetings I attend because he appreciates that they are being taught only what is beneficial for them.”

Valquíria, Brazil: “I have one child and have been married for 19 years. Thirteen years ago, I became one of Jehovah’s Witnesses. At first, my husband didn’t want me to engage in the public preaching work. But I learned to reply to his concerns in a mild manner and to help him see that the Bible was having a positive effect on my personality. My husband gradually understood how important it is for me to engage in the preaching work. Today, he gives me full support in my spiritual activities. When I conduct Bible studies in outlying rural areas, he even drives me there in his car and patiently waits outside until I am finished.”

A Force for Good

If your spouse is associating with Jehovah’s Witnesses, do not fear that this will break up your marriage. As many husbands and wives in all parts of the world have found, the Bible is a force for good in a marriage.

One husband who is not one of Jehovah’s Witnesses honestly admitted: “I initially felt some anguish when my wife embraced the faith of Jehovah’s Witnesses, but I now feel the gain was worth the pain.” Another had this to say about his wife: “My wife’s faithfulness, determination, and integrity have caused me to have great admiration for Jehovah’s Witnesses. Our marriage has benefited greatly as a result of her religious beliefs. We have made allowances for each other and have treated our marriage as a lifelong partnership.”

How Do Jehovah’s Witnesses View Marriage?

  Jehovah’s Witnesses view the Bible as God’s inspired Word. So they take seriously what it says about marriage. Note what the Bible says in the answers to the following questions:

▪ Do Jehovah’s Witnesses encourage their members to separate from a marriage mate who is not a Witness?  No. The apostle Paul wrote: “If any brother has an unbelieving wife, and yet she is agreeable to dwelling with him, let him not leave her; and a woman who has an unbelieving husband, and yet he is agreeable to dwelling with her, let her not leave her husband.” (1 Corinthians 7:12, 13) Jehovah’s Witnesses abide by this command.

▪ Is a wife who is one of Jehovah’s Witnesses encouraged to ignore her husband’swishes if he does not share her beliefs? No. The apostle Peter wrote: “You wives, be in subjection to your own husbands, in order that, if any are not obedient to the word, they may be won without a word through the conduct of their wives, because of having been eyewitnesses of your chaste conduct together with deep respect.”—1 Peter 3:1, 2.

▪ Do Jehovah’s Witnesses teach that a husband’s authority is absolute? No. The apostle Paul said: “I want you to know that the head of every man is the Christ; in turn the head of a woman is the man; in turn the head of the Christ is God.” (1 Corinthians 11:3) A Christian wife will respect her husband as being the head of the family. However, a husband’s authority is not absolute. He is accountable to God and Christ. Therefore, if a husband commands that his wife behave in a way that breaks God’s law, a Christian wife will “obey God as ruler rather than men.”—Acts 5:29.

▪ Do Jehovah’s Witnesses teach that divorce is prohibited? No. Jesus Christ said: “I say to you that whoever divorces his wife, except on the ground of fornication [sexualimmorality], and marries another commits adultery.” (Matthew 19:9) Therefore, Jehovah’s Witnesses hold to Jesus’ view that adultery provides grounds for divorce. But they also strongly believe that marriages should not be dissolved for trivial reasons. They encourage their members to abide by Jesus’ words: “A man will leave his father and his mother and will stick to his wife, and the two will be one flesh. . . . Therefore, what God has yoked together let no man put apart.”—Matthew 19:5, 6.

It’s the first day of the new service year ya’ll!

Everybody have a great, productive year. Set attainable spiritual goals and do everything you can to reach them. 

Remember, then, your Grand Creator in the days of your youth (Ecclesiastes 12:1)

Keep on, then, seeking first the Kingdom and his righteousness, and all these other things will be added to you. (Matthew 6:33)

I’ve been tagged!!! JW Q&A

's Questions

1. If you were introduced to the bible later in life, what did you learn that made believe that it was the truth or was very important to your life at the time? If you were raised in the truth, what was one truth or belief that was important to you as a child?

I was raised in the truth. The thing that stood out to me was that view Jehovah as a loving father. My parents divorced when I was little and soon after that my dad moved to Florida. I know somewhere deep down I knew that he left because of him, but I just couldn’t shake the fact that he left because he didn’t love me and my brothers enough. In a way I still feel that way. But no matter what I still have Jehovah on my side. I could talk to him and cry about what I was going through. That was more than I ever got from my dad.

2. One song that’s a guilty pleasure of yours?

Oh too many N*Sync songs to count. Yeah, totally embarrassing.

3. Have you ever worn sneakers to a meeting or other informal clothes?

I worked second shift for a couple of months. I would leave work and go straight to the meeting so I didn’t have time to change. I felt so awkward. I would sit in the second school and leave soon after.

4. What if any teachings have you struggled to put faith in or commandments from Jehovah have you had to struggle obey?

None recently that I can think of. I try to have a good spiritual support system around me, so when something comes up I can talk to someone.

5. How much of your family is in the truth? Has that amount made it easier or harder for you?

I have a ton of family in the truth. Both on my mom and dad sides. Now adding in my husband’s family, we could make a small congregation. I think it has made things easier. It’s always weird to have to explain over and over why you aren’t participating in some function, be it for a family member’s birthday or some church function that they’re having. It’s always great to be able to have family who can understand understand you spiritually speaking. They already know because they go through the same things.

My questions:

1. If you were raised in the truth, what is your earliest spiritual memory? If you were introduced to the truth later, what was your first visit to the kingdom hall like?

2. Have you ever found it hard to grasp the thought of living forever? How have you dealt with this?

3. Do you have any family members that you wish were in the truth?

4. How you deal with hostility in the ministry?

5. Pretend you’re in the Paradise, what is your day like?

Tagging a few people 

mightilyconfused somewhereonlyweknowforever memorypolice  rae-bies aworknotyetfinished

Just thought I’d share

This is an article from one of our local newspapers here.

Local visitation market feels absence of Jehovah’s Witnesses

Thousands of convention-goers, and their dollars, in Atlanta for international gathering

A hole in the Columbus visitation market will be felt this summer. That’s because Jehovah’s Witnesses have taken a detour elsewhere.

The religious group, which has been flocking to the city each July, instead this year is taking part in an International Convention of Jehovah’s Witnesses in downtown Atlanta. They met last weekend at the Georgia Dome and are scheduled to be there again July 18-20.
“One of things we are missing this year is going to be the Jehovah’s convention,” said Peter Bowden, president and chief executive officer of the Columbus Convention & Visitors Bureau. “It’s a pretty significant piece of business for Columbus … We’re all working to try to recover from that so the hospitality sector doesn’t feel the hit when we go to look at our demand and occupancy.”
Jehovah’s Witnesses have been coming to the area for years, filling up hotel rooms, eating and shopping locally, and tanking up vehicles while holding their convention over two weekends at the Columbus Civic Center.
“That’s why they like Columbus because the Civic Center is a perfect fit for them,” Bowden said.
A year ago, the group was here the weekend after the Fourth of July and the weekend after that. A CVB booking report estimated attendance at about 7,500 for each visit, with a local economic impact of just over $1.3 million per weekend.
Attempts to reach various Jehovah’s Witnesses halls in the Columbus area were unsuccessful. But Bowden said he expects the convention group to return in 2015.
“They reassured us they would be back,” he said. “We feel confident that they enjoy being in Columbus, so we look forward to getting them back next year.”
In fact, the Jehovah’s Witnesses have already booked space at the Columbus Civic Center over two weekends in early July, said Ross Horner, director of the South Commons facility. There also are two smaller gatherings between now and then — Oct. 25 this year and May 16 next year — that could bring up to 3,000 or so attendees.
“They’ve been great partners,” said Horner, who has dealt with the group in other cities. “The relationship that we have with the Jehovah’s Witnesses here is the best that I’ve seen.”
Unlike the city as a whole, Horner said the loss isn’t a major one financially for the center since the concession stands aren’t operating during the conventions. Typically, most of the facility’s profit comes from sales of beer, soft drinks, hotdogs, pizza and other food and refreshments.
Still, the center won’t receive the “cleansing” it typically receives each summer as the Jehovah’s Witnesses arrive for their meetings.
“I’ve never seen a group do it as intensely as they do here,” Horner said. “They’ll come in the day before they move in and bring 100-plus people and they will clean this building. They even scrub the outside bricks. Our guys love it.”
Send out your light and your truth. May these themselves lead me. May they bring me to your holy mountain.—Ps. 43:3

In his Word, God has preserved for the use of his people the very name he chose for himself. The Scriptures first mention “Jehovah God” in “a history of the heavens and the earth.” (Gen. 2:4) God’s name was miraculously inscribed several times on the stone tablets bearing the Ten Commandments. For instance, the first commandment began: “I am Jehovah your God.” (Ex. 20:1-17) God’s name lives on because the Sovereign Lord Jehovah has preserved his Word and his name despite all satanic efforts to eliminate them. (Ps. 73:28) In his Word, Jehovah has also preserved the truth. Though religious error abounds worldwide, how thankful we are that God has given us spiritual light and truth! Whereas the masses of mankind walk in darkness, we joyfully keep on walking in God-given spiritual light.—1 John 1:6, 7. w13 2/15 1:2, 3

I am longing to see you, that I may impart some spiritual gift to you in order for you to be made firm.—Rom. 1:11.

What is an especially vital way in which elders show personal interest in their brothers and add to the congregation’s joy? By taking the initiative to reach out to those who need encouragement. (Acts 20:28) When elders do so, they imitate spiritual shepherds of old. Note, for instance, what the faithful overseer Nehemiah did when he saw that some of his Jewish brothers had grown spiritually weak. The account states that he immediately rose up and encouraged them. (Neh. 4:14) Today, elders want to do the same. They ‘rise up’—take the initiative—to help fellow believers to be firm in faith. To give such personal encouragement, they visit their brothers and sisters in their homes if circumstances allow. During such shepherding visits, they want to “impart some spiritual gift” to them. w13 1/15 5:10

The path of the righteous ones is like the bright light that is getting lighter and lighter until the day is firmly established.—Prov. 4:18.

In the modern history of Jehovah’s people, there have been landmark conventions—events that marked major developments in theocratic activities or Scriptural understanding. The first major convention that the Bible Students held after World War I was in 1919 in Cedar Point, Ohio, U.S.A. That gathering, attended by some 7,000, was marked by the launching of a global preaching campaign. In 1922, during a nine-day convention at the same location, dramatic impetus was given to this activity by Joseph F. Rutherford, who told his attentive audience: “The world must know that Jehovah is God and that Jesus Christ is King of kings and Lord of lords. . . . Therefore advertise, advertise, advertise, the King and his kingdom.” Attendees, and indeed God’s people worldwide, joyfully embraced that exhortation. w12 9/15 5:6

Is it for nothing that Job has feared God?—Job 1:9.

When we hear that a brother is reaching out for some privilege of service, do we readily believe that his motives are pure, or do we suspect that he is driven by self-interest? If we have a tendency to be cynical, it is good to remember that the Devil questioned the motives of God’s faithful servant Job. (Job 1:10, 11) Rather than being suspicious of our brother, we would do well to consider why we are critical of him. Do we really have good reason for being that way? Or has our heart been poisoned by the unloving spirit so prevalent during these last days? (2 Tim. 3:1-4) Another reason why we might be critical of others is that we desire to make our own accomplishments more noticeable. In effect, we may be attempting to look taller by pushing others down. Or we may be trying to excuse our own failure to take positive action. Whether pride, envy, or insecurity is driving us, the result is destructive. w12 8/15 3:5, 6

One thing I have asked from Jehovah— … that I may dwell in the house of Jehovah all the days of my life.—Ps. 27:4.

Jesus revealed that rendering acceptable worship to Jehovah would no longer be contingent on having one grand structure that was blessed by God. (John 4:21-23) The apostle Paul indicated inHebrews chapters 8 to 10 that a great spiritual temple came into existence at Jesus’ baptism in 29 C.E., when he presented himself to do Jehovah’s will. (Heb. 10:10) This great spiritual temple is the arrangement Jehovah has made so that we, through our faith in Jesus’ ransom sacrifice, can approach God acceptably. How do we worship there? By praying “with true hearts in the full assurance of faith”; by declaring our hope publicly without wavering; and by considering, inciting, and encouraging fellow worshippers at our congregation meetings and during family worship. (Heb. 10:22-25) Appreciation for the arrangement of true worship fortifies us in these critical last days. w12 7/15 3:7

I was making greater progress in Judaism than many of my own age.—Gal. 1:14.

Before Paul’s conversion to Christianity, he had what seemed to be a promising future. He had studied Jewish law with one of the most famous teachers of his day. He had received authority from the Jewish high priest. (Acts 9:1, 2; 22:3; 26:10) Yet, all of that changed when Paul realized that Jehovah was no longer blessing the Jews as a nation. Paul recognized that a career in the Jewish system had no value from Jehovah’s point of view; it had no future. (Matt. 24:2) This former Pharisee went so far as to say that compared with his new, enlightened understanding of God’s purposes and the privilege of the Christian ministry, what he once thought was important he now considered to be “a lot of refuse.” Paul abandoned his pursuits in Judaism and dedicated the rest of his days on earth to preaching the good news.—Phil. 3:4-8, 15; Acts 9:15w12 6/15 3:10, 11